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The Shocking Truth About Russian Women.
Or The truth about the writing on "Russian Dating" |
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By Julia Pika
Russian Dating has long been a serious business. As in any industry there is competition here. And the competition, as we know, is not always accepted by all as an incentive to improve the quality of their services. Often, it moves to create a bad opinion of another competitor. It's much easier. Why work hard for years, earning a reputation among clients, when it's easier to do character assassination of competitors. As a result, there is a conflicting information. The man who really decided to get acquainted with Russian woman, naturally has questions, the answers to which are extremely important. He begins his quest and first encounters with the "gurus" of the "Russian Dating". Gurus know how to intrigue the audience. In this I should give credit for them. Half of the men, sooner or later come to the services of professional marriage agencies, had previously "been in the hands" of one-aloner gurus. They did not receive |
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the answers there. This is quite logical. After all, the proper answer to the question
"What is a Russian woman" could not be given by a single person. The adequate conclusion can only come about as a result of personal living communion with many women. The textbook can not help here. Many "independent" writers of e-books on Russian Dating use the same techniques to promote their "product". They have their common feature. This is the presentation of the material as something sensational. "The shocking truth", "Important Dating Tips The Marriage Agencies Never Tell You" and the other titles, where the "sensational" information is, that... is laid out in every marriage agency and is not a secret. These essays do not provide the reliable and objective information about Russian women. Because the authors have a different task - to sell their book on the current topic, where the demand is high enough. Will there be a benefit to the reader or not - does not matter, it is more important that he made a purchase! The agency earns by a different way. It's funny to read the "paradoxical" discoveries in such the essays. Very often, the gurus, posing as a connoisseur of Russian mentality (meaning, "I am a Russian woman"), fall into the trap of their own ingenuity. They make their sensational statements, which for the real Russians are quite mundane and familiar things. Making such statements means that he or she simply does not know Russians! How a "owner of the Russian mentality" can ask the questions, that are not questions for any Russian, both man and woman? |
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Here's an example:
"I want to give you an example how you can read into the marriage agency advertising
using a critical eye and common sense. Try this: Go to any marriage dating agency and following their procedure to join. Look at Russian women from 21 to 25 years old.. Pay close attention to what these women have written in their bios.. Do you see anything in common??? Of course you do.. It is very obvious! Ninety percent if not more of these women have written that they have a bachelor degree. They just finished or going to finish their educational requirements. Ask yourself, WHY? If all the dating agencies are telling you that all Russian women are very family oriented and in most cases live to serve their husband and children, why would they spend 10 years in school and from 4-7 years at the university, getting a degree?" This says a "Russian woman"! (?) If the guru is not chasing a sensation, but was aimed at an objective presentation of information, he or she would have known that having an education for the Russian is as common, as having a passport. In Russia, it is no secret, that the Diploma of Higher Education is an indispensable attribute of a "decent women", and it is often left without proper application later. For the most part, when choosing the Institute, the girl is guided not by the criterion of a future career, but based on the principle "that the Institute is closer to her home". And having an education it does not mean not to be "family oriented". It does not interfere each other! On the contrary, a girl with a diploma is more likely to marry. So it has taken in Russia. And not knowing this for a "owner of Russian mentality" is at least strange. |
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Another example of "shocking truth":
"Is it not unusual to see in the average American family at least three children. The
statistical average is 2.7 children per family. How you get a 7/10th of child I don't know, but that is the statistic! In Russia, to see a family with three children would be quite a shock, absolutely! It is even unusual to see a Russian family with two children. When I just came to USA, I was surprised how many pregnant women I saw on the streets! In Russia it is very seldom that you will see a pregnant woman in public. For the last few generations, Russian couple produce only one child. By the way, it is a very big problem in Russia. That each couple produces only one child, does not allow the population to grow but rather stagnate. To be honest, it is not only a problem for Russia, but for all European countries. Are you wondering why most Russian couples have only one child if Russian women are so extremely family oriented as the dating agencies promise you? Why don't they want to have more children? The reason is not because of a difficult economical situation, in fact you can see many countries that have much more difficult economic situations and these poor families have 5-10 children. In Russia, even wealthy families have only one child." And here the answer to question "Why don't they want to have more children?" is obvious for those who do know Russians from inside. It's a pathological reluctance of Russian men to take responsibility for their children. The initiator of abortion in 90% of cases is a man, not woman. At this point there is an official statistics, and the guru seems likes the statistics, but somehow selectively. I do not want to convince anyone that to deal with the agency is more reliable than the services of a guru. This is a matter of personal choice. I want to end with the words of quoted guru: Be smart enough to learn about the culture of your future wife's country and about
the circumstances that she grew up in, before you marry her. It can prevent you from making many mistakes and help you to build a happy family with an Russian woman. |
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