The Shocking Truth About Russian Women.
Or The truth about the writing on "Russian Dating"
By Julia Pika
Russian Dating has long been a serious
business. As in any industry there is
competition here. And the competition, as
we know, is not always accepted by all
as an incentive to improve the quality of
their services. Often, it moves to create
a bad opinion of another competitor. It's
much easier. Why work hard for years,
earning a reputation among clients, when
it's easier to do character assassination
of competitors. As a result, there is a
The man who really decided to get
acquainted with Russian woman, naturally
has questions, the answers to which are
extremely important. He begins his quest
and first encounters with the "gurus" of
the "Russian Dating". Gurus know how to
intrigue the audience. In this I should
give credit for them. Half of the men,
sooner or later come to the services of
professional marriage agencies, had
previously "been in the hands" of
one-aloner gurus. They did not receive
the answers there. This is quite logical. After all, the proper answer to the question
"What is a Russian woman" could not be given by a single person. The adequate
conclusion can only come about as a result of personal living communion with many
women. The textbook can not help here.
Many "independent" writers of e-books on Russian Dating use the same techniques to
promote their "product". They have their common feature. This is the presentation of
the material as something sensational. "The shocking truth", "Important Dating
Tips The Marriage Agencies Never Tell You" and the other titles, where the
"sensational" information is, that... is laid out in every marriage agency and is not a
These essays do not provide the reliable and objective information about Russian
women. Because the authors have a different task - to sell their book on the current
topic, where the demand is high enough. Will there be a benefit to the reader or not -
does not matter, it is more important that he made a purchase! The agency earns by a
It's funny to read the "paradoxical" discoveries in such the essays. Very often, the
gurus, posing as a connoisseur of Russian mentality (meaning, "I am a Russian
woman"), fall into the trap of their own ingenuity. They make their sensational
statements, which for the real Russians are quite mundane and familiar things. Making
such statements means that he or she simply does not know Russians! How a "owner
of the Russian mentality" can ask the questions, that are not questions for any
Russian, both man and woman?
Here's an example:
"I want to give you an example how you can read into the marriage agency advertising
using a critical eye and common sense.
Try this: Go to any marriage dating agency and following their procedure to join. Look
at Russian women from 21 to 25 years old.. Pay close attention to what these women
have written in their bios.. Do you see anything in common??? Of course you do.. It is
very obvious! Ninety percent if not more of these women have written that they have
a bachelor degree. They just finished or going to finish their educational requirements.
Ask yourself, WHY?
If all the dating agencies are telling you that all Russian women are very family oriented and in most cases live to serve their husband and children, why would they spend 10
years in school and from 4-7 years at the university, getting a degree?"
This says a "Russian woman"! (?) If the guru is not chasing a sensation, but was aimed
at an objective presentation of information, he or she would have known that having
an education for the Russian is as common, as having a passport. In Russia, it is no
secret, that the Diploma of Higher Education is an indispensable attribute of a "decent
women", and it is often left without proper application later. For the most part, when
choosing the Institute, the girl is guided not by the criterion of a future career, but
based on the principle "that the Institute is closer to her home". And having an
education it does not mean not to be "family oriented". It does not interfere each
other! On the contrary, a girl with a diploma is more likely to marry. So it has taken in
Russia. And not knowing this for a "owner of Russian mentality" is at least strange.
Another example of "shocking truth":
"Is it not unusual to see in the average American family at least three children. The
statistical average is 2.7 children per family. How you get a 7/10th of child I don't
know, but that is the statistic!
In Russia, to see a family with three children would be quite a shock, absolutely! It is
even unusual to see a Russian family with two children.
When I just came to USA, I was surprised how many pregnant women I saw on the
streets! In Russia it is very seldom that you will see a pregnant woman in public. For
the last few generations, Russian couple produce only one child. By the way, it is a
very big problem in Russia.
That each couple produces only one child, does not allow the population to grow but
rather stagnate. To be honest, it is not only a problem for Russia, but for all European
Are you wondering why most Russian couples have only one child if Russian women are
so extremely family oriented as the dating agencies promise you? Why don't they want
to have more children?
The reason is not because of a difficult economical situation, in fact you can see
many countries that have much more difficult economic situations and these poor
families have 5-10 children. In Russia, even wealthy families have only one child."
And here the answer to question "Why don't they want to have more children?" is
obvious for those who do know Russians from inside. It's a pathological reluctance of
Russian men to take responsibility for their children. The initiator of abortion in 90% of
cases is a man, not woman. At this point there is an official statistics, and the guru
seems likes the statistics, but somehow selectively.
I do not want to convince anyone that to deal with the agency is more reliable than
the services of a guru. This is a matter of personal choice. I want to end with the
words of quoted guru:
Be smart enough to learn about the culture of your future wife's country and about
the circumstances that she grew up in, before you marry her. It can prevent you from
making many mistakes and help you to build a happy family with an Russian woman.
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