Three kinds of MatchMaking agencies
where you can meet Russian Brides
DATING SITES WHERE YOU PAY FOR EACH LETTER "DELIVERED TO A GIRL"
The expensive and doubtful way to meet Russian brides in match making agencies and
dating sites like these. Men are told by these agencies that Russian ladies do not
have Internet at home, so the Russian girls have to come to the office to read their
letters. Men can buy their contact information- postal address and name with
surname. But as postal mail goes very slow men have to use the services of these
dating agencies and pay for each letter "delivered to her" and her replies.
There are several things that seem
mysterous to me in this:
1.Where do they find so many women
who do not have Internet at work or at
home, or who can't go to Internet cafe?
Yes, about 15 years ago, only 20% of
women had access to Internet and had
email addresses. All others have to come
to the agencies to write and read
letteres. But 15 years passed since then and the situation has changed rather
radically. And even 4 years ago I met on these sites girls who had emails on my sites,
but did not have there. Very strange!
2. Many such dating sites offer to pay for delivery of the letter to a girl and they
guarantee the answer of the girl. But the girls are not cars, not a computer. How can
you guarantee the answer? If she does not like him? (yes, yes, the girls have also
their preferances and their likes and dislikes). Beautiful girls receive a lot of attention,
why should she answer all 100 men who write to her?
3. The third puzzling question is: I helped some men, who asked me to deliver letters
to girls whose postal address they bought. I sent special letters that are sent with
confirmation (the postmaster checks that the letter is delivered to people living in the
flat personally, have their signs and then sends confirmation back that the letter was
successfully delivered. It was very puzzling. People that had these postal addresses
received the letters all right, but no answer. To send back a letter was free for these
girls (but I doubt, that it was girls, the letters were sent nice interesting, active men
and .. no answer) - there was an empty envelope in the letters. But alas, no answers
were ever given.
4. The fourth thing that puts me on guard is that a lot of Russian beautiful girls write
there to men. My experience tells me that if a girl is beautiful and has great photos, if
she is not a scammer, she can write to men but only on the first day of her
membership, when she does not know yet if she will be much written or not. But then
she is much written to, and doubtfully will write herself to men. She will have to spend
a lot of time answering her mail (it is quick to answer in the computer, but to write all
answers manually as we are told by agencies is a formidable task.).
And this kind of sites are really exspensive. When on my site a man comes to Russia
to meet his lady, they have exchanged by that time at least about 100 letters. Some
manage to write about 50 letters each day ,and so write about 1000 and more letters
till the man comes to meet this woman. If to pay 3 usd for each letter can you
imagine the price for a building relatinship with one woman (hoping she is real).
Dating sites that sell Russian women's emails is better ones. But if you want to make
it an honest business, it is sooooooooo hard to support!! (About 8 years ago I tried to
make one of my sites to sell the Russian ladies' emails. It was awful!.
DATING SITES WHERE EMAILS OF RUSSIAN LADIES ARE SOLD
The girls manage to change their
email addresses once in 2 months, with previous one blocked or just not
answering. The girls do not always tell
us about this on time. But some men do
the refund becauseof this.
It is extremely hard to catch
scammers (not all of them have the
same ip addresses so that you can block
them by this). A beautiful girl registers
to the site, nothing suspicious ( you can't just block her because she has a beautiful
face and a great figure!), then you activate her, immidiately 20 men buy her email
address and other information, and only in a month you learn that she is a scammer
(on subscription site it is easier. Scammers want to have as much victims as possible
and so write, write, write to all men without distinction that they are interested only
in them, that they have just looked at their profile (without photo, hmm) and fallen in
love. So only a look to their mailbox or a complain from any men is enouph to make
this girl suspicious and begin checking her and then delete her if she turns out to be a
scammer). But how to do it on the site that sells the email addresses?
The third problem that I faced when trying to do this kind of site is the problem
of choice. Yes, you can sell the ladies' email addresses but you can't make them
answer men. A girl can loose interest (yesterday she had a big row with her boyfriend
and applied to some marriage agency, today, she is in love with him again) or she can
just not like the man who has written to her. The girls are not goods, they are free,
they choose themselves, and if a girl is beautiful she can get about 20 letters each
day, she can choose (yes, some sites offer them money for answering, but I thinkihis
practice is dishonest, it is understandable that nothing serious will come from this but
the man will just loose time). But again men do not know if their letter reached the
The next problem is that some Russian women who registered on the site
manage to find a man whom they want to see as their partner in life very very
quickly (it can be one or two weeks). They register, two weeks of communication
with different men and then they delete themselves from the site as they found their
the only one and want to try to build the relationship with him. On the subscription
site it is all right, she deleted her self and the next day the men see that she is
deleted and not interested any more. But if they bought her email, why she has
disappered, they have nobody to ask. To say nothing, about many agencies that
prefer not to disactivate such women's profile even after she asked to delete herself.
(If this profile brings you about 100 usd a day, will you want to kill this hen, who lay
SUBSCRIPTION DATING SITES
This site is a subscription site. It means
that you register and after you pay you
have full access to the system. You can
write to any girl that is in the gallery, the
girls answer you to your mailbox on the
site. You have different ways to show
your interest to the girls of your choice.
They have this possibility also. The
Russian women do not pay on this site,
they become gold after we check their
profile and activate it. If you like the girl,
and she likes you, then you can choose
to exchange by personal email and communicate there or you can choose to use the
site further to communicate (some couples prefer as the site has free online
translator). You can at any moment hide your profile - then only the girls whom you
have written will see your profile, all others won't see you in the gallery.
This kind of dating sites has problems also.
1. The main problem is that some men prefer to have slow approach - they send
numerous winks to each girl that caught their interest, then they send her postcards,
then begin the attack with ice-break. But to 20 such letter girls get tired from these
signs of attention but without result and delete themselves from the site (especially if
men try to worry the girls into answering them by such means.
2. The second problem is that some men register and wait for "beautiful Russian young
girls to write to them. But then they become disillusioned: (we thouroughly clear the
site from scammers, so the "girls" with great photos writing to all men from 20 to 80
do not operate here) the men have letters but not from those Russian models they
want, sometimes they have children, sometimes they have not the age they want and
so on. It is real girls and we can't make the girl if she is beautiful and 25 to write to
men up to 55. She is free. If a man wants it, he needs to work himself, to choose, to
3. We have no control about the girls. We can also delete them if they act not in a
proper way , but that's all. A girl can come to the site today, then in 2 months, then
come very often, they again disappear for some time. We can even phone to them
and ask to answer the letters ,but they have for example winter, and it gets on their
nerves, they feel dark, cold and do not think about any relationship and can't hope for
anything, but then the spring comes and the mood changes and she is full of hopes
and plans comes to the site each day and only then finds somebody.
4. This kind of service is good for russian brides who can come often to Internet, to
the site, then they are in the first pages of the search and have many letters, but
others who register and wait for notification about new letters to them can meet
disappointment. They do not have letters. I am not against free dating sites for
international and usual dating. If people can support and develop the business by
making advertising on the pages of the site then it is all right. But usually these sites
have the following problems:
FREE DATING SITES AND SO CALLED GURUS
1. They very rarely can give full time
support to the site, and scammers
manage to register and send many
messages before they are deleted. It is
if they are deleted. We worked for 3
years thinking about it before we did our
multi-level anti-scam protection that
helps sort out good girls from scammers.
2. The next problem is that women are
not protected there from new kind of
Nigerian scammers , that work with
women and scam women a lot as if they were American men.
3. Because of the lack of a sufficient number of profiles of real women, such sites
focus on the sale of "reliable information" about Russian dating. Exploiting profitable
topic, they create a buzz by the distortion of the real state of things and offer for
money their services of dubious nature.
4. We have on the site psychological testing, online translator, I do not understand
how it can be provided on the free dating sites. And in my opinion, it is easy to pay
39 usd for a year than to have free dating, and then come to Russia ( pay 3000 usd
for the trip) and see that the girl is not compatible with you. This kind of site usually
can provide you with basic dating. If you are ready to risk it, it is up to you.
THE MOST COMMON MISTAKES MEN DO
WHEN THEY SEARCH FOR A WIFE IN RUSSIA
1. Judge women by photos. Glamourous photos, photos as if they are from women's
magazine attract their attention. It is interesting but 80 percent of letters are
received by 20 percent of women. But they are not more beautiful, they are not more
interesting than others. They have just better pictures than others. Men do not pay
attention to psychological test result ,to compatibility. But they will live
with a woman, not with pictures. They will be unhappy if they have
beautiful wife that is always makes rows or constantly nagging and
does not want to sleep with them. Quite recently I talked to a man
from Spain, he was complaining that he had got acquainted by Internet
with several Russian ladies, they were completely breathtaking in their
pictures, but when he came to meet them they were just average, not
superordinary not like those models on the podiums. He was walking
along the streets of St-Petersburg and saw many beautiful Russian girls
walking along the street, they were not in hurry, talked with their friends, lauphed a
lot. Why then did he meet Russian ladies who were beautiful in the pictures, but were
tired, dull, not funny? Yes, it can happen also. If a girl exausts herself with work (she
has, for example, to care alone for her child or she needs to rent an apartmnet and it
is very expensive in Russia ) she looks not her best, and you can't imagine how she
changes after rest or after she does not need to work so hard. By accident, all the
Russian girls that he met were hard working ones and he saw them after full working
day (in one case after a night shift). And he saw in the street Russian girls who had
holidays or were students and so had vacations or even does not work at all as they
had boyfriends who cared for them. That's where from such a difference!
2. The second mistake the men who are looking for a Russian bride do is the result
of this also. Many men look for models in appearance, they want to be an envy of all
their friends. But they want to live with normal girls - warm, kind-hearted, faithful.
But most girls who look like models do not want real relationship, they
want just men's admiration, they want to be the center of attention. But
they do not need closeness, intimacy, warmth. The second reason is
that even if there is such a paragon who combines model appearance
with warmth and comfort. They are very rare. We have a joke about it:
Two men are sitting near a fireplace. One man says looking in the fire. I
was never married in my life. - Why? - I was alwasy searching for a
perfect woman for me. - And? Did not you find her? - No, I found her.
But I was not a perfect man for her. It is a sad joke but I have met some
men who were acting like this and I saw them on different sites for more
than 15 years.
3. The next mistake is a choice! Men just can't stop (some
women are into this also). The best is an enemy of good
enouph.They find someone, meet, everything is all right but they
continue to look and look for new women. They are poisoned by
an idea that maybe somewhere there is a person with whom it is
better, who is more interesting.
4. Men register to the site, but they do not want to place
any photo there or they place a photo where it is impossible
to see them or they put terrible photos. Some men are under
illusion that pictures do not mean anything for women. It is
men who choose by pictures, but women prefer them to write
clever words, write about their profession, their hobbies. Yes,
it is good when you write a lot about you, but for women a
lot is determined by your pictures. They do not want men
to look like models (in fact, men-models will most likely frighten them away, but they
want to see your smile, to see your eyes, to feel calmness and reliability that comes
from you, for some it is important to see you in your home. And only then they will
read about your hobbies, about your interests and what you like. They are often easy
victims of scammers - scammers do not pay attention to pictures and ready to
answer or write to them themselves without asking for new pictures.
5. About 50 percent of men who register on the dating site prefer to
sign on and then wait for Russian beautiful girls to write to them.
Guess who has more letters, more choice and more chances to find their
love, these 50 percent who are just sitting and waiting for their dream girl
to write to them or men who are active themselves, who search
themselves and who answer also women who write to them? Yes, the
second group of men has much higher chances, especially if to take into
account that many women do not want to be the initiators of the
communication, they have traditional views on this and regard men as an active side.
6. But the strategy that surpsises me most is the attitude of some
men who need 10 times (or something like that) of confirmation that
this particular woman wants to communicate with them. They send
women a wink, receive a letter or a wink in return, then send her a
postcard, receive something, then wink, wink, wink, after 6 such
"signs of attention" most women begin to get tired from this and stop
answering. Then they continue to send these signs to the women of
his choice. But most Russian girls are already not interested in them.
7. The last common mistake is that men want to find many women
to visit in Russia and only then come, but in reality women who were
interested in them loose interest after some time and search for
somebody else, men continue their search in the attempt to find more
ladies, but again, some ladies do not want to wait for him unknown
amount of time and after some time when he does not answer when
he can come they stop being interested in him. It is an endless
process for them