Well, I don't like the idea of having to pay just to send messages to someone I am interested in. I've
payed for services like this before and they were a totall let down, and I spent hours trying to get
refunds back due to a dissappointing dating site. In most cases I always win. Unfortunately, I'm just
not into the whole paying thing. If it was free then sure I'd stay but - hey - that's life I guess. Thanks for
having me here though.
1. I think that previously you were on the site with Russian mail brides, the site that sells addresses. I
admit that it could be rather disappointing.
About 5 percent of women who register at the site delete themselves in 5 or 10 days, getting
disappointed in Internet dating services in general, or because it was done on spur of the moment.
Sometimes they even manage to find someone at the site very quickly and want to continue
communication only with this person. However, in respect of the site that sells emails, suchlike
girls would not be deleted from the database. Their emails will get sold again and again, but the
girls would never answer.
About 5 percent of women pretend to be so much interested in their search that they check their
mail once a month. On the "mail order brides" it is impossible to distinguish them from the girls
who are really interested and come to check their mail regurarly.
The most serious problem at the site that sells emails are scammers. If the first letter seems like
scammer's we check the girl's address and other things the same day. If we see that a girl is
really a scammer, we put her to our scammer-list and men can see her there and be warned
about her. It is easy and quick to check. But when men buy the address how can they be up to
date if she is a scammer or not?
About 6 percent of women at the site change their personal emails each month, which means that
their old ones become invalid, but still they get notification about new mail in their profile's inbox
delivered to the new address. But how can it be done at the sites that sell emails?
As you can see, it is really difficult to have updated the girls' database at the site. If you do not
check it regularly, men's messages will return unread, the girls will never answer or answer in a month
after the man has already forgotten about them.
2. You do not pay for communication. You pay for service, for the system. It is not seen how much
work daily has to be done so that the site functions well.
A lot of work is done to check new girls and consider all the complaints. Nobody wants to be on
the site where there are more scammers than normal girls.
The same as for getting rid of the female scammers, a lot of work has to be done to check all the
men. There is such a thing as Nigerian spam. People from Nigeria register at the site, pay for the
membership by fraudulent credit cards and then begin to try to scam the girls (alas, it happens
also!)
A lot of work is done to make the site easy to search for Russian girls. It is necessary to have big
choice for both men and women.
Several programmers work all the time to bring new features to the site.
Several servers work in different parts of the world to make the sites quick to download for people
from all countries.
The work of designers, psychologists, managers, system administrators, support managers
should be paid also.
If you think that it is super profitable business when you just sit and get money out of nowhere, then try
:) and we'll see.
If I pay for membership, will my letters be delivered to the girls' addresses?
All the girls have Internet access and they are able to read their mail themselves (as a rule, they
have Internet at home or go to some Internet club). We do not believe in possibility to build the
relationship when people exchange messages once in two weeks. If they want to build up the
relationship and learn each other well, people should communicate as much as possible. It is
possible only when the girls visit the site regularly and read their messages on their own, so that
they could answer the men immediately.
How many letters can I send during the month (I want to buy Gold for a month)?
You can send and read as many letters as you want while you are a Gold or Silver member.
Can I see if my letter was read by the lady?
Yes, you can always go to your Outbox and see which letters were read by the lady and which
were not.
Can I buy a lady's address? I want to write her a letter.
No, we do not sell girls' addresses. As well as you, they have their right for safety and privacy.
They register at the site and answer the mail they get. They can also write to men themselves. If
they like somebody, they can share their personal email with the person and communicate
through it.
How can I see the status of a lady (I mean the membership status: free (unpaid), silver, Gold)? How
many ladies at least have paid for silver or gold membership? What if I am interested in a lady, but she
has only free (unpaid) membership? How can she answer me???
All the ladies that you see are gold, although we never make our women pay. Limited girls are not
seen, since before we check the lady and see if she is a scammer or not we do not open her.
Thus, all the ladies you see can answer you. They are absolutely free either to write to you first or
answer your message.
I sent letters to approximately 30 to 40 ladies, I think, I am interested in them. But I have a question.
Will each lady receive my letter ? I have fear, that the lady can automatically select on her account,
from which men (criteria like age, country...) she wants to receive letters?
No, it is impossible for ladies. Ladies receive messages from all men who write to them. But, of
course, some of them check their mail regurarly (each day or several times a day), while the
others do it once a week or even can be now absent on holiday. You can go to your outbox and
check which letters were read and which were not. And, of course, a lady can answer you or - let
us be realistic! - keep silent since she does not like you.