TIPS FOR INTERNET ACQUAINTANCES WITH RUSSIAN BRIDES
Questions of Men
Well, I don't like the idea of having to pay just to send messages to someone I am
interested in. I've payed for services like this before and they were a totall let down,
and I spent hours trying to get refunds back due to a dissappointing dating site. In most
cases I always win. Unfortunately, I'm just not into the whole paying thing. If it was free
then sure I'd stay but - hey - that's life I guess. Thanks for having me here though.
1. I think that previously you were on the site with Russian mail brides, the site that
sells addresses. I admit that it could be rather disappointing. About 5 percent of women
who register at the site delete themselves in 5 or 10 days, getting disappointed in
Internet dating services in general, or because it was done on spur of the moment.
Sometimes they even manage to find someone at the site very quickly and want to
continue communication only with this person. However, in respect of the site that sells
emails, suchlike girls would not be deleted from the database. Their emails will get sold
again and again, but the girls would never answer. About 5 percent of women pretend to
be so much interested in their search that they check their mail once a month. On the
"mail order brides" it is impossible to distinguish them from the girls who are really
interested and come to check their mail regurarly.
The most serious problem at the site that sells emails are scammers. If the first letter
seems like scammer's we check the girl's address and other things the same day. If we
see that a girl is really a scammer, we put her to our scammer-list and men can see her
there and be warned about her. It is easy and quick to check. But when men buy the
address how can they be up to date if she is a scammer or not? About 6 percent of
women at the site change their personal emails each month, which means that their old
ones become invalid, but still they get notification about new mail in their profile's inbox
delivered to the new address. But how can it be done at the sites that sell emails?
As you can see, it is really difficult to have updated the girls' database at the site. If
you do not check it regularly, men's messages will return unread, the girls will never
answer or answer in a month after the man has already forgotten about them.
2. You do not pay for communication. You pay for service, for the system. It is not seen
how much work daily has to be done so that the site functions well. A lot of work is
done to check new girls and consider all the complaints. Nobody wants to be on the site
where there are more scammers than normal girls. The same as for getting rid of the
female scammers, a lot of work has to be done to check all the men. There is such a
thing as Nigerian spam. People from Nigeria register at the site, pay for thenmembership
by fraudulent credit cards and then begin to try to scam the girls (alas, it happensnalso!)
A lot of work is done to make the site easy to search for Russian girls. It is necessary to
have bignchoice for both men and women. Several programmers work all the time to
bring new features to the site. Several servers work in different parts of the world to
make the sites quick to download for people from all countries. The work of designers,
psychologists, managers, system administrators, support managers should be paid also.
If you think that it is super profitable business when you just sit and get money out of
nowhere, then try :) and we'll see.
If I pay for membership, will my letters be delivered to the girls' addresses?
All the girls have Internet access and they are able to read their mail themselves (as a
rule, they have Internet at home or go to some Internet club). We do not believe in
possibility to build the relationship when people exchange messages once in two weeks.
If they want to build up the relationship and learn each other well, people should
communicate as much as possible. It is possible only when the girls visit the site
regularly and read their messages on their own, so that they could answer the men
How many letters can I send during the month (I want to buy Gold for a month)?
You can send and read as many letters as you want while you are a Gold or Silver
Can I see if my letter was read by the lady?
Yes, you can always go to your Outbox and see which letters were read by the lady and
which were not.
Can I buy a lady's address? I want to write her a letter.
No, we do not sell girls' addresses. As well as you, they have their right for safety and
privacy. They register at the site and answer the mail they get. They can also write to
men themselves. If they like somebody, they can share their personal email with the
person and communicate through it.
How can I see the status of a lady (I mean the membership status: free (unpaid), silver,
Gold)? How many ladies at least have paid for silver or gold membership? What if I am
interested in a lady, but she has only free (unpaid) membership? How can she answer
All the ladies that you see are gold, although we never make our women pay. Limited
girls are not seen, since before we check the lady and see if she is a scammer or not we
do not open her. Thus, all the ladies you see can answer you. They are absolutely free
either to write to you first or answer your message.
I sent letters to approximately 30 to 40 ladies, I think, I am interested in them. But I
have a question. Will each lady receive my letter ? I have fear, that the lady can
automatically select on her account, from which men (criteria like age, country...) she
wants to receive letters?
No, it is impossible for ladies. Ladies receive messages from all men who write to them.
But, of course, some of them check their mail regurarly (each day or several times a
day), while the others do it once a week or even can be now absent on holiday. You can
go to your outbox and check which letters were read and which were not. And, of
course, a lady can answer you or - let us be realistic! - keep silent since she does not